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		<title>By: definatalie</title>
		<link>http://www.definatalie.com/2009/06/16/how-to-love-yourself-in-8-really-hard-steps/comment-page-1/#comment-3232</link>
		<dc:creator>definatalie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 08:21:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Mab! I&#039;m glad to welcome you into the body-positive blogging world :)&lt;br&gt;There are a couple of super lovely French fatshion bloggers, if you didn&#039;t know about them already:&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://saksinthecity.blogspot.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://saksinthecity.blogspot.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.leblogdebigbeauty.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.leblogdebigbeauty.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Also, I&#039;m not from North America, I&#039;m from Australia! Our fat acceptance movement is small, but growing, we&#039;re trying really hard to grow a bigger presence :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Mab! I&#39;m glad to welcome you into the body-positive blogging world :)<br />There are a couple of super lovely French fatshion bloggers, if you didn&#39;t know about them already:<br /><a href="http://saksinthecity.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">http://saksinthecity.blogspot.com/</a><br /><a href="http://www.leblogdebigbeauty.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.leblogdebigbeauty.com/</a></p>
<p>Also, I&#39;m not from North America, I&#39;m from Australia! Our fat acceptance movement is small, but growing, we&#39;re trying really hard to grow a bigger presence :D</p>
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		<title>By: Mab</title>
		<link>http://www.definatalie.com/2009/06/16/how-to-love-yourself-in-8-really-hard-steps/comment-page-1/#comment-3230</link>
		<dc:creator>Mab</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Aug 2010 22:59:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I came on your site via a Flickr, and I think I&#039;m going to watch you from now :)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I&#039;m french, and here in France we don&#039;t have any &quot;Health at every size&quot; or &quot;Fat acceptance&quot; movements. So it&#039;s really hard to explain to people that you can be fat and feel fine (well in fact I do not feel fine personnally, but I know that getting thin won&#039;t make feel better either...)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;North American websites like yours are my only sources of support.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I came on your site via a Flickr, and I think I&#39;m going to watch you from now :)</p>
<p>I&#39;m french, and here in France we don&#39;t have any &#8220;Health at every size&#8221; or &#8220;Fat acceptance&#8221; movements. So it&#39;s really hard to explain to people that you can be fat and feel fine (well in fact I do not feel fine personnally, but I know that getting thin won&#39;t make feel better either&#8230;)</p>
<p>North American websites like yours are my only sources of support.</p>
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		<title>By: Julica</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 May 2010 00:56:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just watched your video in youtube and looked up your blog because I just wanted to say to you: congratulations and thanks a lot! You just summed up a lot of things that I always try to say - even if I can&#039;t still fully believe in them - just to try to question people and feel better about myself. I&#039;m brazilian and - I don&#039;t know if you know that - we are the country with the highest numbers of cosmetic surgeries and diet pills consumption, so it&#039;s kind of crazy over here to be fat and proud. So, I totally agree with you when you say that the media sell you everyday that being fat equals being unhealthy, and here it&#039;s everywhere. Your story about running is really inspiring, since I am one of those people who think that are ashamed to go exercise - I often feel (even though I don&#039;t admit) that I have to lose weight before I join a gym (hahaha). Also, I wanted to add something to your list: I always say that the stores never have plus size clothes because thin people want us to dress horribly just because they are so jealous that we can eat whatever makes us happy. So, thanks a lot because your video is REALLY inspiring!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just watched your video in youtube and looked up your blog because I just wanted to say to you: congratulations and thanks a lot! You just summed up a lot of things that I always try to say &#8211; even if I can&#39;t still fully believe in them &#8211; just to try to question people and feel better about myself. I&#39;m brazilian and &#8211; I don&#39;t know if you know that &#8211; we are the country with the highest numbers of cosmetic surgeries and diet pills consumption, so it&#39;s kind of crazy over here to be fat and proud. So, I totally agree with you when you say that the media sell you everyday that being fat equals being unhealthy, and here it&#39;s everywhere. Your story about running is really inspiring, since I am one of those people who think that are ashamed to go exercise &#8211; I often feel (even though I don&#39;t admit) that I have to lose weight before I join a gym (hahaha). Also, I wanted to add something to your list: I always say that the stores never have plus size clothes because thin people want us to dress horribly just because they are so jealous that we can eat whatever makes us happy. So, thanks a lot because your video is REALLY inspiring!</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Moses</title>
		<link>http://www.definatalie.com/2009/06/16/how-to-love-yourself-in-8-really-hard-steps/comment-page-1/#comment-1468</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Moses</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 08:51:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love your site as we are on the same mission...Love yourself...both inside &amp; out!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love your site as we are on the same mission&#8230;Love yourself&#8230;both inside &#038; out!</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Moses</title>
		<link>http://www.definatalie.com/2009/06/16/how-to-love-yourself-in-8-really-hard-steps/comment-page-1/#comment-1469</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Moses</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 08:50:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Totally love your site....I have the same goal...Love Yourself~Both Inside &amp; Out...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://HRMagoo.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;HRMagoo.com&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Totally love your site&#8230;.I have the same goal&#8230;Love Yourself~Both Inside &#038; Out&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://HRMagoo.com" rel="nofollow">HRMagoo.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: B.B.</title>
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		<dc:creator>B.B.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 03:48:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;d like to add one thing to all this great advice- an option to &quot;give clothes away.&quot;  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Learn to sew!&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt;1)Take a beginners class. &lt;br&gt;2)Buy a cheap sewing machine. &lt;br&gt;3)Practice a bit on stuff you don&#039;t care so much about- like what would have gone in the drop off box or into a yard sale.&lt;br&gt;4) Make a customized dressmaker&#039;s dummy of yourself with plasic wrap and duct-tape for next to nothing (there&#039;s a Youtube vid to show you how.) &lt;br&gt;5)You can find other great tips, tricks, and tutorials on Youtube and elsewhere. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;When you feel confident (which won&#039;t take long! ) bring new life to your old once beloved garments. You can make your old favorites new again and even more unique and beautiful. You can look wonderful wearing them again and feel great about your accomplishment. People ask me where I bought this or that constantly and have tried to pay me to make them clothes- which I won&#039;t do. I tell them the same thing I&#039;m telling you. Teach someone to fish is the way I look at it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You&#039;ll also realize how easy and fun it is to make clothes in general. Your imagination is your only limit. You&#039;ll never spend big money on inferior cloth, poor design, bad fit or shoddy workmanship again. You&#039;ll keep that money to pamper yourself in other ways or start up some of those dream projects you have on hold. Before you say &quot;I don&#039;t have time to sew!&quot; You do have time. I spend less time making a new dress/top/skirt/pants that I love than I used to spend shopping for stuff that I sort of liked that sort of fit me. My biggest regret is that I waited so long in life to learn. How I wish I&#039;d known how in school. I made sure my daughter and son didn&#039;t make my mistake. They both learned early and both LOVE to sew. We now have three sewing machines in the house and might need a fourth one soon since my husband has taken an interest. No I don&#039;t sew for him either. I did teach him how to thread a machine.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Favorite healthy snacks? &lt;br&gt;1)Raw or home roasted almonds&lt;br&gt;2)Celery sticks with hummus&lt;br&gt;Desserts?&lt;br&gt;1)No fat yoghurt with fresh fruit mixed in and/or drizzled with honey.&lt;br&gt;2)Tofu maple chocolate mousse- Silk textured tofu, dry cocoa powder to taste, a couple drops to a dash of vanilla extract. Food processor or blender. Sweeten with maple syrup to taste. Spoon into fancy glasses, cover with plastic wrap. Refrigerate. Garnish top or side of glass with fresh mint, strawberries etc. Delicious and perfect for dinner parties or special occasions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#39;d like to add one thing to all this great advice- an option to &#8220;give clothes away.&#8221;  </p>
<p>Learn to sew!</p>
<p>1)Take a beginners class. <br />2)Buy a cheap sewing machine. <br />3)Practice a bit on stuff you don&#39;t care so much about- like what would have gone in the drop off box or into a yard sale.<br />4) Make a customized dressmaker&#39;s dummy of yourself with plasic wrap and duct-tape for next to nothing (there&#39;s a Youtube vid to show you how.) <br />5)You can find other great tips, tricks, and tutorials on Youtube and elsewhere. </p>
<p>When you feel confident (which won&#39;t take long! ) bring new life to your old once beloved garments. You can make your old favorites new again and even more unique and beautiful. You can look wonderful wearing them again and feel great about your accomplishment. People ask me where I bought this or that constantly and have tried to pay me to make them clothes- which I won&#39;t do. I tell them the same thing I&#39;m telling you. Teach someone to fish is the way I look at it.</p>
<p>You&#39;ll also realize how easy and fun it is to make clothes in general. Your imagination is your only limit. You&#39;ll never spend big money on inferior cloth, poor design, bad fit or shoddy workmanship again. You&#39;ll keep that money to pamper yourself in other ways or start up some of those dream projects you have on hold. Before you say &#8220;I don&#39;t have time to sew!&#8221; You do have time. I spend less time making a new dress/top/skirt/pants that I love than I used to spend shopping for stuff that I sort of liked that sort of fit me. My biggest regret is that I waited so long in life to learn. How I wish I&#39;d known how in school. I made sure my daughter and son didn&#39;t make my mistake. They both learned early and both LOVE to sew. We now have three sewing machines in the house and might need a fourth one soon since my husband has taken an interest. No I don&#39;t sew for him either. I did teach him how to thread a machine.</p>
<p>Favorite healthy snacks? <br />1)Raw or home roasted almonds<br />2)Celery sticks with hummus<br />Desserts?<br />1)No fat yoghurt with fresh fruit mixed in and/or drizzled with honey.<br />2)Tofu maple chocolate mousse- Silk textured tofu, dry cocoa powder to taste, a couple drops to a dash of vanilla extract. Food processor or blender. Sweeten with maple syrup to taste. Spoon into fancy glasses, cover with plastic wrap. Refrigerate. Garnish top or side of glass with fresh mint, strawberries etc. Delicious and perfect for dinner parties or special occasions.</p>
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		<title>By: B.B.</title>
		<link>http://www.definatalie.com/2009/06/16/how-to-love-yourself-in-8-really-hard-steps/comment-page-1/#comment-1181</link>
		<dc:creator>B.B.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 03:48:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;d like to add one thing to all this great advice- an option to &quot;give clothes away.&quot;  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Learn to sew!&lt;br&gt; &lt;br&gt;1)Take a beginners class. &lt;br&gt;2)Buy a cheap sewing machine. &lt;br&gt;3)Practice a bit on stuff you don&#039;t care so much about- like what would have gone in the drop off box or into a yard sale.&lt;br&gt;4) Make a customized dressmaker&#039;s dummy of yourself with plasic wrap and duct-tape for next to nothing (there&#039;s a Youtube vid to show you how.) &lt;br&gt;5)You can find other great tips, tricks, and tutorials on Youtube and elsewhere. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;When you feel confident (which won&#039;t take long! ) bring new life to your old once beloved garments. You can make your old favorites new again and even more unique and beautiful. You can look wonderful wearing them again and feel great about your accomplishment. People ask me where I bought this or that constantly and have tried to pay me to make them clothes- which I won&#039;t do. I tell them the same thing I&#039;m telling you. Teach someone to fish is the way I look at it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You&#039;ll also realize how easy and fun it is to make clothes in general. Your imagination is your only limit. You&#039;ll never spend big money on inferior cloth, poor design, bad fit or shoddy workmanship again. You&#039;ll keep that money to pamper yourself in other ways or start up some of those dream projects you have on hold. Before you say &quot;I don&#039;t have time to sew!&quot; You do have time. I spend less time making a new dress/top/skirt/pants that I love than I used to spend shopping for stuff that I sort of liked that sort of fit me. My biggest regret is that I waited so long in life to learn. How I wish I&#039;d known how in school. I made sure my daughter and son didn&#039;t make my mistake. They both learned early and both LOVE to sew. We now have three sewing machines in the house and might need a fourth one soon since my husband has taken an interest. No I don&#039;t sew for him either. I did teach him how to thread a machine.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Favorite healthy snacks? &lt;br&gt;1)Raw or home roasted almonds&lt;br&gt;2)Celery sticks with hummus&lt;br&gt;Desserts?&lt;br&gt;1)No fat yoghurt with fresh fruit mixed in and/or drizzled with honey.&lt;br&gt;2)Tofu maple chocolate mousse- Silk textured tofu, dry cocoa powder to taste, a couple drops to a dash of vanilla extract. Food processor or blender. Sweeten with maple syrup to taste. Spoon into fancy glasses, cover with plastic wrap. Refrigerate. Garnish top or side of glass with fresh mint, strawberries etc. Delicious and perfect for dinner parties or special occasions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#39;d like to add one thing to all this great advice- an option to &#8220;give clothes away.&#8221;  </p>
<p>Learn to sew!</p>
<p>1)Take a beginners class. <br />2)Buy a cheap sewing machine. <br />3)Practice a bit on stuff you don&#39;t care so much about- like what would have gone in the drop off box or into a yard sale.<br />4) Make a customized dressmaker&#39;s dummy of yourself with plasic wrap and duct-tape for next to nothing (there&#39;s a Youtube vid to show you how.) <br />5)You can find other great tips, tricks, and tutorials on Youtube and elsewhere. </p>
<p>When you feel confident (which won&#39;t take long! ) bring new life to your old once beloved garments. You can make your old favorites new again and even more unique and beautiful. You can look wonderful wearing them again and feel great about your accomplishment. People ask me where I bought this or that constantly and have tried to pay me to make them clothes- which I won&#39;t do. I tell them the same thing I&#39;m telling you. Teach someone to fish is the way I look at it.</p>
<p>You&#39;ll also realize how easy and fun it is to make clothes in general. Your imagination is your only limit. You&#39;ll never spend big money on inferior cloth, poor design, bad fit or shoddy workmanship again. You&#39;ll keep that money to pamper yourself in other ways or start up some of those dream projects you have on hold. Before you say &#8220;I don&#39;t have time to sew!&#8221; You do have time. I spend less time making a new dress/top/skirt/pants that I love than I used to spend shopping for stuff that I sort of liked that sort of fit me. My biggest regret is that I waited so long in life to learn. How I wish I&#39;d known how in school. I made sure my daughter and son didn&#39;t make my mistake. They both learned early and both LOVE to sew. We now have three sewing machines in the house and might need a fourth one soon since my husband has taken an interest. No I don&#39;t sew for him either. I did teach him how to thread a machine.</p>
<p>Favorite healthy snacks? <br />1)Raw or home roasted almonds<br />2)Celery sticks with hummus<br />Desserts?<br />1)No fat yoghurt with fresh fruit mixed in and/or drizzled with honey.<br />2)Tofu maple chocolate mousse- Silk textured tofu, dry cocoa powder to taste, a couple drops to a dash of vanilla extract. Food processor or blender. Sweeten with maple syrup to taste. Spoon into fancy glasses, cover with plastic wrap. Refrigerate. Garnish top or side of glass with fresh mint, strawberries etc. Delicious and perfect for dinner parties or special occasions.</p>
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		<title>By: RoyGervase</title>
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		<dc:creator>RoyGervase</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 09:50:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No matter how we look, we must love our body because because it allows us to do all the wonderful things that we do. For most overweight people it&#039;s not even their fault, genetics has a lot to do with that. But with loving our body comes the responsibility of taking care of it. Don&#039;t give up diet and exercise just because you no longer hate the way you look. This thinks will keep your body healthy.&lt;br&gt;________________&lt;br&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;follow&quot; href=&quot;http://www.hcgdietlosangeles.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;weight loss Los Angeles&lt;/a&gt; consultant</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No matter how we look, we must love our body because because it allows us to do all the wonderful things that we do. For most overweight people it&#39;s not even their fault, genetics has a lot to do with that. But with loving our body comes the responsibility of taking care of it. Don&#39;t give up diet and exercise just because you no longer hate the way you look. This thinks will keep your body healthy.<br />________________<br /><a rel="follow" href="http://www.hcgdietlosangeles.com" rel="nofollow">weight loss Los Angeles</a> consultant</p>
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		<title>By: JoAnne</title>
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		<dc:creator>JoAnne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 11:02:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I found your blog via The Fat Nutritionist&#039;s site and girl, I have to say - I want to fly down there and give you a big old hug for being so bloody awesome.  The advice you give in these not-so-little 8 steps is well-thought-out, truthful, and inspired.  You rock. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found your blog via The Fat Nutritionist&#39;s site and girl, I have to say &#8211; I want to fly down there and give you a big old hug for being so bloody awesome.  The advice you give in these not-so-little 8 steps is well-thought-out, truthful, and inspired.  You rock. :)</p>
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		<title>By: Natalia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Natalia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 02:47:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What can I say, It is just amazing article! Your words make us alive! Thank you very much, you are a great person!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What can I say, It is just amazing article! Your words make us alive! Thank you very much, you are a great person!</p>
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